Fixes #22

Fixes #20

Use the same set of warning flags that pipewire uses

See #20

The Dbus device reservation has been moved into a separate module, and has also
been refactored to allow reserving a device name before an actual device is
created. Devices now are created and destroyed by the monitor depending on
whether PipeWire owns the device or not. This also simplifies a lot the device
activation module to always enable devices when they are created, and never
worry about checking whether a device is acquired by PipeWire or not.

Allows implementing device specific endpoint creation logic, which is currently
needed for bluetooth endpoints as they need to be created differenly.

Apparently git cannot directly clone at an arbitrary commit,
it must be a branch or a tag

because otherwise the metadata unit test fails

* Implement the proxy properly with info caching, methods, etc
* Get rid of useless variables and includes

meson.build:
When the 'wrap_mode' option is set to 'nodownload' use a system version
of cpptoml. This does not require using git and having a network
connection during build, which is important for Linux packaging
infrastructure.

subprojects/cpptoml.wrap:
Pin revision to last release tag (v0.1.1).

lib/wptoml/*.cpp:
Remove 'include/' prefix from all cpptoml related includes, at is not
required.

Closes #17

Related to #18

* add library.name to not require adding `add-spa-lib` in pipewire.conf
  or wireplumber.conf for this to work
* add a commented local=true; it can be useful to run those nodes
  locally for testing, sometimes