The alsa.pcm devices currently use "device.api" = "alsa:pcm"
but then the node overrides this later to just "alsa", which
is confusing. For now, let's match "alsa:pcm" in the monitor,
even though this does not appear on the node later.

This commit fixes device preferences in wireplumber.conf,
which were broken because the alsa endpoint names were empty
of info about the alsa device

This is a generic WpMonitor loader that sets up the WpMonitor
properties from the module arguments and applies some well-known
properties to the device & node objects