so that we can filter proxies by id on object managers

- make it a GObject so that it can emit its own signals
and so that it can be shared between multiple proxies
- share the WpProps instance between endpoints, endpoint-streams
and their underlying nodes
- introduce the concept of the caching mode that redirects _set
to _set_param of the proxy that actually has the props; this allows
shared WpProps to actually set changes on the correct proxy
in a transparent way
- change methods to consume the ref of the pod and reflect that
also on wp_proxy_set_prop()
- refactor the export process on endpoints & endpoint-streams
so that they always get all the required features (info, props, bound)
and make it async so that we can take time to prepare the underlying
node to have FEATURE_PROPS
- update the props & endpoint unit tests, bringing back all the
checks that the endpoint unit test used to have

m-config-static-nodes: remove unneeded 'conected' callback and create static nodes when the plugin is activated

This module suspends a node if idle for at least 3 seconds

* Use a direction instead of a string prop id
* Emit default-endpoint-changed again
* Get rid of the useless virtual methods

+ rename FEATURE_CONTROLS to FEATURE_PROPS
+ add accessor for the standard spa_param_info (info->params)
+ hide the low-level params API that nobody uses

-> wp_trace_boxed (WP_TYPE_SPA_POD, pod, "some message");

by using G_TYPE_NONE (== 1), we can pass this in the log handler
to point out the fact that we expected something but it's null

As a bonus, a null object always gets printed in red because that's
the first color in object_colors