proxy/core: refactor object creation

* core no longer exposes create_remote/local_object
* node, device & link have constructor methods
  to enable the create_remote_object functionality
* added WpImplNode to wrap pw_impl_node and allow creating
  "local" node instances
* added WpSpaDevice to wrap spa_device and allow creating
  "local" device instances
* exporting objects in all cases now happens by requesting
  FEATURE_BOUND from the proxy, eliminating the need for WpExported
* replaced WpMonitor by new, simpler code directly in module-monitor
* the proxy type lookup table in WpProxy is gone, we now
  use a field on the class structure of every WpProxy subclass
  and iterate through all the class structures instead; this is
  more flexible and extensible